Update: she is running again:!
Did a number of things... at least one but maybe more did the trick:
- Replaced all fuses with new, some had slight corrosion on the contacts
- the battery ground bolt easily stripped when i tried to tighten it (replaced)
- the ecm looking thing above the steering column was very loose. Tightened it and sanded the ground wire that secures to it.
- there was a 4 wire connector at the botom front of the engine that had somehow become unlatched and showed clear signs of being loose. Disconnected, cleaned and re-seated it.
Thanks to all who replied and offered support! Maybe the next project I'll try and tackle is an oil change and drive belt replacement
