High RPM, high load is not accurate. Most of the stress the belt will endure is when its being lugged slowly, say at 12mph on a rocky trail in high gear. If you are riding under 20mph, do yourself a big favor and have your machine in low range.
An object in motion tends to stay in motion, so when you have it up to speed, it isn't working hard to maintain that speed. A guy in the Wildcatforums just bought a Wildcat X and blew out his belt in the first 50 miles. His belt temps were in excess of 210° for most of that ride, peaking at 250 !! Now that's how you kill a belt in a hurry ! Sounds like your belt temp are right where they need to be.