Sound is always the problem. I watched videos of people with the 2-brothers exhaust on theirs and it sounded way too loud and the fact that I would need a programmer took it off the table. That's when I did my stock muffler mod which even with the spark arrester took it to the edge of needed a programmer. The sound was OK, but like you, I have about 40% hearing loss in my left ear and after a few hours of riding I get that sensation in it...but I also have a Benz silencer I can put on that works well..except I hate hearing all that drive train noise. I have sense had a chance to ride with a guy with a 2-Brothers exhaust and it really wasn't all that loud after all...but it would still be too loud for my wife.
IDK, need more options.