Thanks for the advice on using gasket spray adhesive NMK, worked great. Only ever used that type of adhesive before and it was when I built a 350 chevy and used shim head gaskets. They recommended copper spray adhesive.
Got everything back together last night. Pressure is up around 20psi at idle, warm. I say "around" because the pressure fluctuates, not rapidly, but slow swings up and below 20 psi.(but not dropping below 10) The same when driving it at higher rpm except the pressure will go up to 40-50, then swing down again. I am assuming that changing the beat up oil pump brought my pressure up from 6 psi to 20ish at idle now. But now I am thinking that their may be another problem with the pick up tube or something is hindering oil flow through the castings, as I am reading in other posts. The oil is right up where it should be on the dip stick, not screwed in. I did blow out the oil cooler more thoroughly and no crap at all came out. I made up a oil cooler bypass with 1/2" hose as well and initially ran it that way after I got it put back together. After hooking the oil lines back up there was no change in the pressure swings. I am in the process of looking for a waterproof electrical oil pressure gauge. The only other thing I can think of when I changed the oil pressure relief valve is possibly the O ring for it slipped out of the groove when I pushed it into the bore? This was going to be my last attempt at fixing it myself before taking it in but I have a feeling they will put a gauge on it and call it acceptable. So, I guess I will call it a win and hopefully whatever garbage went through the oil pump is gone now.